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beauchocolat:

“If she truly loves you, she’ll never leave you no matter how mad she gets” 

“You don’t give up on people you love” 

And all those other dumb ass quotes about “true love” just upsets me and makes me want to stay further away from the shit ya’ll call “love” 

So you mean to tell me that you can cheat on me, piss me off constantly, not give me even half of the effort I give you and I’m suppose to stay if I “love” you. FUCK OUTTA HERE.

Newsflash: It’s not called “giving up”, it’s called realizing you’ve taken enough of someone’s bullshit & letting go of a situation that’s hurting you. You can still love someone and not be with them. 

I believe that once you love someone, you always love them. Your love for them changes, you can go from “being in love” to just “loving” someone. You still care, you don’t wish them any harm, you want the best for them but you don’t have to be with them in that way anymore. 

Love doesn’t mean you need to be together. Some things just don’t need to happen. It’s not always in the best interested for either party, but people don’t understand that. That’s how people end up staying in hurtful situations for years. They love the person, so they feel they have to stay with them. You don’t!.. Let it breath. You’ll be okay. 

(via ghdos)

ghdos:

boombapbully:

kingjaffejoffer:

deezyville:

I eat grits with sugar and not cheese. I understand that I am in the minority, But that’s the only way that seems right for me.

I don’t put sugar in my grits, I put grits in my sugar. 

I like them sweet as fuckkkkkkkkkk

YO! I used to rock with them with sugar when I was younger. Then, my BM introduced me to cheddar grits. I’m almost certain my son was conceived that morning….just sayin’.

I’ll take butter and sugar every so often. Definitely the sweeter, the better. Grits with cheese is the tops though.